Thursday, February 2, 2012

Dawn

Oh the pitfalls to learning to read the English language. It is really amazing that any of us learn to read.

And the cold hard truth is that being from The Great South doesn't make it any easier.

In college I worked with a first grade struggling reader for one of my courses.  One of my lessons was teaching the short e and contrasting the sound with the short i. You know, in words like pen and pin and ten and tin.

I spent a ridiculous amount of time saying those words into a mirror and trying to hear the difference myself.  You try it.  No really, I'll wait.  Go ahead try and hear the difference in the short e and short i in those words.

Oh, you don't hear it? Now make yourself a beginning reader still trying to learn how to isolate sounds in words. Impossible.

At this point Walker is just breaking the reading code and following the simple rules he has learned. I am treading lightly.

With our curriculum we are getting to the point where Walker is reading words on his own.  One of the assignments is to choose a word from a list and write the word and illustrate it.

My view today: Today's lessons have tested us all, but we have survived. Even with some success. #febphotoaday

The first word he chose - Don.  He asked me how to draw it.  I told him to draw Don however he wanted to.

I come back in and find him coloring wildly with a red and orange crayon.

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Me - "Umm, buddy? What are you doing? How is this a picture of Don?"

Him - "You know, don,  like when the sun comes up and it goes from dark to sunshine."

Me - "Right - dawn" - Well - (I say to myself - dawn, don, dawn, don)  - and ever so slight difference, but "yes dear that is exactly the word those sounds make.  Good job."

Some days I feel like I am banging my head on the wall.  Like the progress we are making is so slow he might never be an independent reader.  But here - I see the light breaking through the darkness.  He decoded, matched the sounds with words he knows, and assigned it a meaning. That is reading folks.

We will work on the more complicated vowel patterns like the /aw/ at some point. For now, I'll encourage my little southern reader as much as I can.

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Eleven

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Time keeps marching on.

Even this deep into it we are still discovering what this whole "one flesh" thing is all about.

Our tenth anniversary was spent wining and dining and indulging as just the two of us.  This year was spent with our little family.  Our little physical representations of one flesh drinking chocolate milk and eating sandwiches.  There was him and me and now there is them.



It is pretty amazing.

This year has been quite the adventure for us individually, as a couple and as a family.  So much has been stretched, molded and changed. But, back at our anniversary, back at the moment for reflection we are that much closer than we ever dreamed possible.

I love you more each day, my dear.

To all the years yet to come...

*Top photo courtesy of Synergy Photography.
*Second photo, just to have a little reminder of how we spent our eleventh anniversary.


Wednesday, January 25, 2012

The Oldest is Now Older - On Being 6

W. 6.

Walker is growing and becoming this person.  This baby who made me a momma just keeps getting better and better.

He never forgets anything.  He loves structure and traditions. If we do something one year for a holiday he expects it the next.

He will be hurried for no one. Enough said.

He is a sweet sensitive one.  He has difficulty drawing the line between pretend and reality in books, tv or movies.  I have to be careful when talking to him about the realities of this fallen world without destroying his fragile innocence.

He has big plans for each day.  Most every morning he wakes me up by tiptoeing into my room and standing by the bed. When I become aware of someone standing beside the bed and I peak open my eyes he whispers, "mommy I want my breakfast."  Every. Day.

He will eat almost anything, but his favorite food is a cheeseburger.  He calls the chicken sandwich at Chick-fil-a the chicken burger so even where they do not serve burgers he can still order one.

His newest favorites are Legos and Transformers, but he still spends a good amount of time designing and building train layouts.  He says he is going to be a train engineer when he grows up.

He is breaking the phonics code.  He is reading some simple words.  He has finally started drawing figures. He is great at math.  He is is most interested in the science and history.  He absorbs everything we learn so much that I have to make sure I'm telling/reading the right thing because it immediately becomes fact.

He turned 6 and we celebrated his milestone.  Because, 6, wow. That is such a big kid, and he is.
W. 6.

And every time {every time} I ask my big kid 6 year old to smile for the camera. This is the face I get:
W. 6.

And because it's fun to look back:
Walker at 5 and Walker at 4 and Walker at 3 and Walker at 2 and Walker at 1 and In the Beginning

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Soaking It In

Today I tossed the kids in the big bathtub for a mid-day swim.
Bath Time

And someone was a camera hog.
Bath Time

Bath Time

Dried off all the little monsters.
 Bath Time

Bath Time

Bath Time

Dried off 30 pruney toes.
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And thanked God for the beautiful sunshine streaming through the windows and hoped it would warm up the air for a bit out outside play soon.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Snap Shots

It is amazing that attached to a cell phone (which is frequently attached to me) is a fantastic camera allows me to document these fleeting moments of our life.

All the moments are not spectacular, but the ones that are I want to remember.

Watching this precious child play with his shadow
Saturday morning shadow play. I love 2 year olds!

Backyard sunshine in January
Backyard playing on a beautiful January 1st. Already too many gifts to count in 2012.

One day he won't need my presence to peacefully fall asleep, but on this day he did and I savored it.
McGrumpy Pants finally gave in. #AhhhhNap

Sometimes we call him Little Napoleon. He knows how to get his way. It is hilarious that this picture happen to illustrate the king of the castle.
King Colin looking down from on high at the park today.  Gorgeous day! Also, little tyrant.

Momma ran her first race. And a clown nose was the best prize ever.
Family prep for #TheRedNosedRun tomorrow.  One turkey refused to wear the nose. Turkey.

Daddy worked on the yard and Eli was thrilled to assist.
Daddy's only willing late afternoon helper. What a team.

And maybe my favorite instagram ever.
Playing until the sun disappears. So thankful for this day and that we were able to enjoy it.

Or this one.
Amazing Saturday. @jasonmccay is home, ran almost 6, grandma's oatmeal waffles, playing at the railroad park and we are only to lunchtime!

So grateful that my phone (!) gives me such a fantastic way to document these details of life.

Friday, December 30, 2011

Christmas Celebrating 2011

We were blessed with an amazing season.  There was much joy and we really did slow down and enjoy our time together.

Santa came.
Christmas Morning 2011

Christmas Morning 2011

Christmas Morning 2011

Christmas Morning in moving pictures.


There was much family celebrating.
McCay Christmas 2011

McCay Christmas 2011

Brown Christmas 2011

Can you pick out the silliest kid in the picture? Because I can, and I don't believe he is a kid at all.
Brown Christmas 2011

And who doesn't play minute to win it games with grandparents for the privilege of opening  or stealing an amazing dirty Santa gift? {such as a copy of OJ's book}



Friday, December 23, 2011

Christmas 2011

I love receiving everyone's beautiful Christmas cards this time of year.  I appreciate the effort each of you makes to send out your well wishes for the holidays.

However, if you are looking for ours in return, stop looking.  One year I hope to send out cards, that year is not this one.  Sorry!

So here is your virtual Christmas card:

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"...I came that you may have life and have it abundantly." John 10:10

Praying that you find joy in The One who came as a lowly babe so that you 
might be joy filled in him this day, this hour, this moment!

Bonus Card: 

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Christmas in the South.  There is nothing like it.

Because we are beyond pleased to be spending this special time with those we love so dearly.